Therapy tailored for you

Whatever your goals, you are welcome to have a therapeutic conversation with me to work through big or small problems and improve your quality of life. We often examine the root of issues rather than the symptoms.

I specialise in helping people improve their relationships, build a sense of self, overcome trauma, organise overthinking (resulting in depression and anxiety), and achieve work/home/life balance, etc. I work collaboratively with youth and adults individually, and also offer couples and family therapy.

Due to my background, males of all ages, people from minority cultures, and those who defy 'normal' tend to be comfortable relating with me. On the other hand, I can establish common ground with anyone and with any story they bring.

My experience includes working with:

  • depression, low mood

  • anxiety, social anxiety, panic attacks

  • confidence, self-respect, identity, sexuality

  • neurodiversity, autism spectrum, “ADHD”

  • loss of loved ones, loss of work, loss of health

  • lingering trauma such as injuries, sexual harm, recipients of bullying

  • relationship problems, communication, isolation, fitting in

  • challenges with eating, “OCD”, body dysmorphia

  • addictions or harmful survival strategies, self-harm

 
 

How I work with a narrative therapy approach

I'm committed to offering a holistic/meta worldview to help you achieve your preferred outcome. I collaborate with clients to discover helpful stories about themselves, making their skills and resources relevant to outwit the problems that affect them.

I depart from mainstream therapies by offering a different way to talk and think about life's problems. Like questioning the idea of ‘normal’, being wary of labels, and taking a nuanced view of every unique life experience.

As a client, you are in the driver’s seat, and I’m accompanying you with a map. Because a counselling session is about your stories, not mine, I take steps to suspend biases and opinions and refrain from giving advice (unless you specifically ask). Instead, I take a curious, optimistic perspective on people’s intentions and uncover treasured aspects of their stories.

 
 

About me

Kia ora, my name is Fabian. As a 47-year-old Kiwi-Asian, I have diverse experience living between countries and cultures in Aotearoa, and I currently live in Waitakere. I have worked in the architectural, landscaping, food and beverage, educational, and health and wellness industries.

 Clients describe me as down-to-earth, and I approach our sessions with warmth, sincerity, and, when appropriate, with humour. I can engage with a wide range of topics, from simple everyday conversations, to deep philosophy. I welcome a brief phone call so I can introduce myself and answer any questions you may have about how I work. That might give you a chance to see if I am a good fit for you.

Qualifications:

  • Te Whatu Ora accredited member of the New Zealand Association of Counsellors (MNZAC)

  • Master of Counselling (1st Hons) - University of Waikato

  • Experience in mental health, self-development, and community resilience since 2012.

I practise from:

  • Oratia (West Coast Road - click here) Mondays, Wednesdays, Thursdays & Fridays

  • Te Atatu Peninsula on Tuesdays (click here)

  • Online video call on these 5 days

  • Time slots are 9am, 10:30am, 12pm, 1:30pm, 3pm, 4:30pm (other times may be available by arrangement)

Te Atatu counselling space

Oratia counselling space

 
 

Prices

  • Individual client’s session

    $125 (may include support persons without extra charge)

  • Combined couple’s or family therapy session

    $200 (may include separate individual sessions)

    4 to 6 sessions are recommended at 1 or 2 week intervals. Most clients quickly gain the clarity they need, notice changes, and seldom need to return for regular long-term sessions - unless they prefer extra support implementing changes. Why? Because if the therapy I offer works, you won’t need my services for long.

    Pre-funded (free) counselling with me may be available from these GPs

  • Avondale Health Centre

  • Avondale Family Doctor

  • The Good Medicine Clinic

  • Dominion Medical Centre

  • Glenavon Doctor’s Surgery

  • Mt Albert Medical Centre

  • Prana Family Health

  • Teo Medical Centre

  • 3 Kings Accident & Medical Centre

  • 3 Kings Family Medical Centre

  • The Good Medicine Clinic

    Pre-funded (free) counselling with me may also be available from

  • Te Puna Manawa HealthWest YouthHub (click here)

  • Ignite Aotearoa (click here)

    Subsidised counselling may be available from

  • WINZ (disability allowance for counselling - click here)

 

 Afflilates